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This programme contains
strong language, scenes of
sexual nature and nudity

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I'm nervous. I'm going to
take it one step at a time.

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In a world saturated with sex...

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I'm absolutely petrified.

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...more young adults than ever
are living without it.

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The thought of having sex
with someone...

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Scares me. It gives me the ick.
I'm missing out.

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Terrified. Nerve-racking.

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Gut-wrenching. Embarrassing.

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All I think about is
what I'm going to get wrong.

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{\an8}Can you point to the outer labia?

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Nope.

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Now...

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Oh, my, God!

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...12 virgins are getting
a crash course in intimacy.

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Social media, porn, dating apps -

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{\an8}there are so many negative messages
- and we can help them blossom.

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{\an8}Use it by stimulating the area.

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{\an8}They'll be guided by experts.

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{\an8}You see yourself as...? Repulsive.

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{\an8}...to explore all
aspects of intimacy...

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{\an8}...and maybe even have sex
with a trained therapist...

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Do you want to put a condom on?

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...or each other.

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Get a room, guys!

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SQUEALING

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I really do need to change my life.

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Who will be ready...

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Desperate times
call for desperate measures.

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...to go all the way?

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{\an8}Whoa! That can kill someone.

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{\an8}LAUGHTER

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{\an8}Over the past few days...

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I've done it a couple of times,

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but I can't quite reach orgasm.

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...the group sharpen technique...

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Kissing travels to the nipples,

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to the pussy, to the toes.

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...putting their new skills...

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I like the stubble on there.

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...into practice.

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HE EXHALES SLOWLY

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Alex climaxed without fear
of losing his erection...

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Everything your body is doing
right now is perfect.

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...and Joy also
made a breakthrough...

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You're all the way in now.

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{\an8}...bringing her one step closer
to pain-free sex.

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{\an8}THEY CHUCKLE

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But it was Tegan who was the first
to lose her virginity on the island.

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That didn't take long!

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THEY LAUGH

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Now the stakes are rising,

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as the group
explores the art of seduction.

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{\an8}The word seduction is very scary
to people

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because they don't understand
how to build erotic energy.

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It's actually saying,
"I'm a sexual being,

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"and I'm going to show it to you."

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{\an8}Just relax
and let your body be.

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It's the penultimate phase
of the course on Virgin Island...

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I have a letter.

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...and things are building
to a seductive peak.

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"This phase of the course
is all about seduction."

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That's going to be...

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...fun...

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...and embarrassing.

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I'm sure Danielle and Celeste have
got something cooked up for us.

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Hopefully I can use
some of that stuff on Joy.

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Are we going to be
seducing each other?

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Yeah, why not?
Super virgin activity.

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SHE LAUGHS

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Being emotionally adept -

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I'm not very good at
that kind of stuff.

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All right, babes? Morning, Princess.

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Seduction.

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Yay! I'm looking forward to it.

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Are you a great seductor?

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I'm not very seductive.

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The eyes tell different story, pal.

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See, that's a great
seduction face. Yeah? Mm.

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Either that, or you're going
to murder me.

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LAUGHTER

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Throughout the workshops,
many have thrown themselves in.

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Good morning. Good morning.
Morning. Morning.

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And in less than two weeks,
the transformation is striking.

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{\an8}Many of them have been
changing throughout the course.

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{\an8}It's amazing to watch.

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To shed this old idea of themselves
and to embrace this new self

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that is sexy and empowered
and ready to go out

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and take the world by storm.

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There's something spicy
happening on the island.

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SHE LAUGHS

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Welcome, everyone.

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This phase is all about seduction.

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We want to demonstrate for you now

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a little exercise to bring together

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all of the different techniques
that you've learned

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into something that's
very seductive -

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up against the wall.

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Up against the wall really
helps you get masterful

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around seduction, and to help
people get into their confidence.

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It is very intense,

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but I really hope that
they're ready to try it.

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OK.

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Thank you.

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OK. Who wants to...
Who wants to try?

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Joy, you want to? Yeah.

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Alex and Joy's blossoming
relationship...

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Shall we do, you push me? OK. Cool.

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...means working together
comes naturally.

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Check with him that
he is ready for you,

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and then you'll move
one step forward.

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And it's easier to practise
when the feelings are real.

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Good.

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You want to be picked up? Yeah.

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CHEERING

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Amazing.

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Also practising
the art of seduction...

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Make sure you're giving
enough pressure here -

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like, around her waist.

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...the island's other lovebirds -
Callum and Katie.

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Beautiful. Yes.

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As more of the group...

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Yes, there you go.

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...take on this advanced exercise...

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Are you good? Yeah. You do it?

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...the progress they've made
on the island is clear.

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That's beautiful.

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Good job.

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OK, who else wants to go?

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Come on, Jase. I'll go up.

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However, so far, 26-year-old Jason

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has kept a low profile
at the retreat.

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You want to push? Yeah. Yeah?

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Jason is so guarded.

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He is the most closed in the group,

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and the least willing
to really experiment.

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But we have to follow his pace,

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and then I think he'll continue
to open up and try more things.

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I'm just... calming my nerves. Mm-hm.

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I'm not antisocial.

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I just don't go out
looking to talk to people.

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I didn't like secondary school.

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I got bullied a lot
cos I'm ginger.

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I was, um, very firmly
in the losers group.

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I bought an old Soviet Polish
coat - over...

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Like, a big winter overcoat.

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And my go-to shoe wear was Crocs.

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I just keep my emotions to myself

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and very rarely even share them
to myself.

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You can walk towards him, Tegan.

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With only a few days left
at the retreat...

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Just like that?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry. Yeah.
Try again.

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Yeah. Going for the back.

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...the time to push beyond
his boundaries...

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Good. Good. Good.

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...is running out.

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Spread her legs.

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Then you bring Tegan's hands up.

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HE LAUGHS

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No! You're doing great.
Don't cancel it.

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You feel it, right? Good.

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And then you can start doing,
like, light touch. Yeah.

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The face, if she's OK with that.

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OK with this? Mm-hm.

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Is that good? Yeah. Good.

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Great. Easy! Well done, Jase.

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Wonderful. You've done
so good today.

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It was good to do it
and to push myself,

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but it was challenging.

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It felt a little peculiar

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being up there
because it was central stage.

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How did you guys find that?
It was fun. Good.

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So what about the pinning part?

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Yes, please.

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LAUGHTER

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I didn't notice.

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SHE LAUGHS

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To help turn arousal
into seduction...

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Hello! Hello.

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...the experts
have the perfect exercise.

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So, um, who enjoys a massage?

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Yes. OK. Sensual massage
is like starting our sexual engine.

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Kind of getting that arousal going.

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I'm so ready. Yes!

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Is this the bed? Oh, brilliant.

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The important thing
with sensual massage is just

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getting used to touching each other
in less and less clothing.

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Play, and discover the different
erogenous zones that you might have.

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Oh, yeah.
I'm actually feeling my fanny.

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My fanny's feeling too.

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I love that. I want you to be able
to just relax into it

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and not have to think
about anything.

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I like thinking about you.
You'll make me blush.

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HE GIGGLES

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It's not just ticklish.
It's other reasons as well.

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As the couples grow closer...

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You touch me first, please. OK.

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...massage is also helping Marianne
deepen her trust in Andre.

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Feels so nice.

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We have three types of touch -
we have nurturing...

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...sensual...

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...and then you can move into
the erotic.

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As Marianne begins to touch Andre...

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...she's eager to learn.

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I think I'm always a bit
nervous with, like, firm touch.

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Let's see what you got.

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Can I do your...? Mm-hm. You can.

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Is that OK, or does it have to be
a certain...?

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No, that's great.

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As things become more intimate...

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Just dig in.

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...confidence grows.

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A little butt squeeze.
Yeah. I love a good bud squeeze.

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Thank you for making it super safe.

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It was very, very yummy.
Can I hug you? Yeah.

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By the way,
you have a stunningly gorgeous face.

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I feel like
you really should know that.

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Thank you.

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Andre, it's great.

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It's fun to do it
with someone who you trust.

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Yeah, so I'm feeling very happy
with how far we've come so far.

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I would like to maybe do, like,
more escalation,

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so this was a great entrance way
into that.

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As Marianne prepares to go further
with Andre...

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Hi!

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...Ellen has her own questions
on erotic massage.

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Marianne, I'm intrigued to know
what vibrator you preferred.

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The clitoral stimulus one.
It was really, really good.

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And she's got a confession
from last night.

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Stop it!

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Oh! I know! I don't...

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It was pink and it had like a head
and then like...

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Oh, OK. Like the marshmallowy one.
Yeah. But it was so nice.

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I'm so happy for you.

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I have done my homework

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and taken away the shame
of masturbation. Um...

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Yeah.

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I've unlocked the pleasure zone!

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Cheers to orgasms, guys.

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But Ellen doesn't want
to stop there.

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Like, I need to just receive that
from someone else.

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You smell nice. Thank you.

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I haven't sniffed you yet,
so I'm not going to tell you

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if you smell good
until I've had a sniff.

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You smell really good as well.
Thank you.

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With the seduction phase
under way...

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I'm so relaxed I need a wee.

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You're so relaxed you need a wee?
Mm.

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...the virgins consider what they'd
like from this stage of the course.

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If the option of me losing
my virginity here comes around,

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I want to be mentally ready for it.
It's a big thing.

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My dream is to have an orgy.

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Why did you look at me
when you said that?

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My hope would be
that in my next session...

256
00:14:10,560 --> 00:14:14,079
...I get to have another orgasm.

257
00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:15,760
Meow! Meow!

258
00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:26,559
The afternoon one-on-one sessions
start... On your back.

259
00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,679
...with Callum learning to receive
intimate touch.

260
00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,239
I am going to touch you,

261
00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,679
exploring what different
kinds of touch feel good...

262
00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:36,599
...from surrogate partner Kat.

263
00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,079
Does that feel OK?

264
00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,079
Ticklish.

265
00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,199
Good tickle, bad tickle?
No, good tickle.

266
00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:46,239
Meanwhile... Can you
take off my bra, please? Mm-hm.

267
00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,239
...Millie's working with
surrogate partner Risdon...

268
00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,879
Can you move to my waist? Yeah.

269
00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,159
...to get comfortable being naked
with another woman.

270
00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:58,119
You're doing a really good job.
Thanks.

271
00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:02,399
I cannot believe how far everyone
has come in this course.

272
00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,360
The group have blown my mind.

273
00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,799
They have taken it on
and just tried everything

274
00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:11,959
and grown in leaps and bounds.

275
00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:15,799
All right, Cal? How was your
one-to-one? Perfect. Yeah?

276
00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,639
And now some of them are ready
to connect with someone sexually.

277
00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:23,479
They've brought a confidence.
It's growing over time.

278
00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,800
However, there is one exception.

279
00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:31,519
Go on, Jase, what is your dream
before leaving the island?

280
00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,799
I have a fear. What's your fear?

281
00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,119
That I'm not going to catch up.

282
00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:37,759
You're not behind here.

283
00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,960
No. You're where you're meant
to be right now.

284
00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,399
It was amazing
to see Jason coming up.

285
00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,199
And he really did the exercise.
He wasn't holding back.

286
00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:51,360
This is amazing. Like it is such
a huge leap for him to do that.

287
00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,799
I want to be able to interact

288
00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:00,199
with people of the opposite sex
more fluidly.

289
00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:01,759
I had a lot of like

290
00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,679
not pursuing things well enough
when I was younger.

291
00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,599
Hey, Jason. Hi.

292
00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,959
This is an opportunity
to relinquish my control

293
00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:11,360
of being comfortable.

294
00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:19,839
I'm curious if you feel open
to going into sexual communication.

295
00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,639
Yeah. I feel like those feelings

296
00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,200
are kind of a compartmentalised
part of myself.

297
00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:32,359
{\an8}Really, his issue is not knowing how
to feel his emotions,

298
00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:35,919
how to express them.
When we don't have words for it,

299
00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,279
we're kind of left with nowhere
to start from.

300
00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:44,239
So Aisha wants Jason
to put his sexual wants into words.

301
00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:48,479
When you're ready,
start to speak your "I wants".

302
00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,439
It's, uh...
It's really hard to say,

303
00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:52,799
I don't know.

304
00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,959
I'm not sure I'm able to get into
that mindset.

305
00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,799
So I'm gonna share one of my wants
as an example.

306
00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:05,959
I want someone to undo my
trouser zip

307
00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,439
and slowly bring them
down off my legs.

308
00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:10,560
OK.

309
00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,479
Uh, like, hair caressing.

310
00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,680
"I want..." I want...

311
00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,279
It's not something I've
said out loud before.

312
00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:30,520
What about if you wrote these things
down and I said them?

313
00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:33,800
Yeah, I guess.

314
00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,320
I have written down four. Fabulous.

315
00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:44,879
OK if I sit like this?

316
00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:46,600
Yeah. I'm going to squirm, though.

317
00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,680
"I want someone who is blonde
and has nice hair."

318
00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,319
Yeah. That's easy.

319
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,440
"I want someone who has
bright eyes.

320
00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,200
"I want someone to initiate with
me." Oh!

321
00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:04,999
I'm dying of cringe.

322
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,199
You're dying in the cutest way.
It's insanely cringe to me.

323
00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,559
Yeah, I'm... Oh.

324
00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,160
No, take a breath. Come on.

325
00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,520
AISHA EXHALES DEEPLY

326
00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,600
"I want to explore someone's
breasts."

327
00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,519
That was great. Yeah.

328
00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:29,839
Progress made, Aisha wants Jason
to try again himself.

329
00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,959
I want to see you on the other
side of feeling embarrassed

330
00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,679
when you speak
about sexual communication.

331
00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,839
OK.

332
00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:37,840
I...

333
00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,279
...like it

334
00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:45,319
when someone caresses my hair
and whispers into my ear.

335
00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,239
Mm!

336
00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,679
An they're breathy. Yeah.
The breathiness.

337
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,639
Yeah. OK. What else?

338
00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:55,199
I like when someone,

339
00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,519
like, hugs me

340
00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:01,559
from behind with their breasts out.
Mm!

341
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,640
You mean, like... like topless?
Yeah. Yeah.

342
00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:07,199
No, this is so good.

343
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,040
I love learning this
stuff about you.

344
00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:13,919
I...

345
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:15,399
HE SIGHS

346
00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:19,119
I found talking
about my sexual desires quite hard,

347
00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:22,239
but once it got started, there was
an enjoyment, yeah,

348
00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:23,919
of just being able to do it.

349
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,760
And I think I made a lot of progress
in the session.

350
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,920
Tegan, will you have sex with me?
Of course. We can help you out.

351
00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,279
Though some are still honing their
seduction technique...

352
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,719
ELLEN LAUGHS

353
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,959
Ellen. What are...? What's happening
there?!

354
00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,759
Horny Island! ..Ellen is a changed
woman.

355
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,199
I'm going to have to wake up
earlier

356
00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,919
for work so I can masturbate
before I go.

357
00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,679
Ellen! Love it, Ellen!

358
00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,279
After a slow start...

359
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:00,479
I'm thinking I'm fine,

360
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,759
as long as you're on that chair
and I'm on this chair.

361
00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,719
...Ellen has worked with Kat.
May I...kiss your neck?

362
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,159
Yes.

363
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,440
...to gradually increase intimacy.

364
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,159
{\an8}Ellen has grown so much.

365
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,440
{\an8}I feel like she trusts herself a lot
more.

366
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,199
She defines no longer being a virgin

367
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,399
as having an orgasm
from another person.

368
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,559
And it's so nice as the practitioner
when your clients understand

369
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,319
their goals
and you can be a part of it.

370
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:33,679
Hi. Hello. Really happy.
I did have an orgasm.

371
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,999
It's given me the confidence
to go into my

372
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:43,799
one-to-one and hopefully orgasm
from someone else.

373
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:48,319
So my plan was to be pretty organic.
Undress and move into me

374
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,599
touch you with you directing.
Does that feel OK?

375
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,120
Yeah. Yeah. At 35...

376
00:20:56,360 --> 00:20:59,119
...Ellen's path to intimacy has been
a long one.

377
00:20:59,120 --> 00:21:00,279
I just want you to, like,

378
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,319
really direct me towards
what feels good.

379
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,119
OK. I'll try.

380
00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:05,999
OK. Just like...

381
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,160
Um...

382
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,639
It's really nice. Um...

383
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,560
I've lost my words.

384
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,160
Just relax and let your body be.

385
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,959
HEAVY BREATHING

386
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,039
Faster.

387
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,440
BREATHING INTENSIFIES

388
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,520
GIGGLING

389
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,959
Something happened!
I think I did orgasm.

390
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,480
You did orgasm? Yeah. Yeah.

391
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:01,800
Thank you.

392
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,640
Have a good night. You, too.

393
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,319
Just over the moon.
I feel like I've got a big smile,

394
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:20,959
like, just inside me.
Like, I'm just really happy.

395
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,160
Yeah.

396
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,879
Hello, Eleanor.
How was your one-to-one, girlie?

397
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:32,320
Lovely, thank you.

398
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,159
I wasn't going to share,
but I'll share with you both.

399
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,519
I'm no longer a virgin! Oh!

400
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,159
Oh, congrats.

401
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,239
ELLEN LAUGHS

402
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,280
That's so exciting! Well done.

403
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,880
Yay!
The lesbians are ruling the roost.

404
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,919
Me next! Me next!

405
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,440
SING-SONG: So exciting!

406
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,919
Good morning. Good morning.

407
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,399
It's day 14 on Virgin Island.

408
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,720
Cup of tea, please. What do you
reckon? Sausages and eggs today?

409
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,639
Sweetcorn. No-one saw that coming.

410
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,519
How are you? Good, thank you.
Do you sleep well? Um...

411
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,039
Yes. The best I've ever slept. Wow.
That's amazing.

412
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,439
I'm glad to hear it. I wonder why.

413
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:34,999
THEY LAUGH

414
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,799
Ellen has joined Tegan as one of
the island's former virgins.

415
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,039
Morning, sweetheart.

416
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,799
And the seduction phase
is inspiring more of the group.

417
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,159
I think it's a great phase because

418
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,759
I would 100% describe myself
as a seductive person.

419
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,079
I didn't realise how much I'd
been stopping it

420
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,999
until I came here. And being allowed
to explore in a safe space -

421
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,719
that's what I'm looking forward to.

422
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,559
Oh, this is a bloody big one, man.

423
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,559
Cheers.

424
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,199
Do not deep fry your banana.

425
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,759
THEY LAUGH

426
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,879
I think this phase is fun.
I can really get into seduction.

427
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,799
I definitely feel
like I can really be in control.

428
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,719
No! Sorry. I dropped my butter.

429
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,280
THEY LAUGH

430
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,519
Dibs on a beanbag! Actually, no.

431
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,559
I want the couch. I want a sofa.

432
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,919
To build on the group's growing
confidence...

433
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,559
Yay! We have goodies for you.
...the next exercise will

434
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,719
really help them tap
into their seductive side.

435
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,679
Today, you will be stepping

436
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:41,400
into your super self,
your most empowered, proud self.

437
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,559
So we have all sorts
of goodies here.

438
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,239
You can cut things up.
Just make it your own

439
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:52,360
to really represent this powerful,
resilient part of yourself.

440
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:57,359
For the super self, they're going
to choose a costume and a name.

441
00:24:57,360 --> 00:25:00,119
- There we go.
- And we've started.
THEY LAUGH

442
00:25:00,120 --> 00:25:02,799
Bye. Bye.
I hope they learn to explore all of

443
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,199
the different
sides of their personality.

444
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,639
They can say, "Hey,
I'm not this awkward,

445
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,920
"disconnected person.
I am hot and confident."

446
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,679
Do you feel confident?
Do you feel empowered?

447
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,079
I feel like I would if I was more
naked. Hmm.

448
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,759
LAUGHTER

449
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,239
Just being honest.

450
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,239
After two weeks of intensive work at
the retreat...

451
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,919
You look hot in the hat, girl.
Thanks.

452
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:29,399
So imagine this.
And then just black underwear.

453
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,279
...Joy has learnt to shed her shame.

454
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,279
I've always kind of
had a fantasy of being a stripper.

455
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:36,679
Oh, really? Yeah.

456
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,839
I'm literally going to
live my dream this evening.

457
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,639
And she's not the only one.

458
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,079
I just always wanted to try being
a hot bunny.

459
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,879
Marianne's losing her inhibitions,
too...

460
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,839
Joy. Oh, yes.

461
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,199
...allowing her sexy side
out. I really like it.

462
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,639
I need like, a sword. Yes. Yeah, yeah.

463
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,999
Even Jason is throwing himself
in.

464
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,159
Rrrah! I've never seen you more
upbeat, Jason.

465
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,799
JASON LAUGHS

466
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:03,920
This jacket, you know,
actually suits me.

467
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,400
I'm just saying.
Yeah, you look quite fit.

468
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:14,319
Yeah, Bert! Fuck, yeah.
Bert is also gaining confidence.

469
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,319
Bertie. Yeah? You're 100%
going to have

470
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,199
the best outfit tonight,
without a doubt.

471
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:20,719
We'll see. No, there's not,

472
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,600
"We will see,"
because I've already seen.

473
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,960
But the experts know he can
still struggle with connection.

474
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,439
I'll be seeing Bertie today,
and I want to work with him on

475
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,999
when there
is something that's awkward.

476
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,599
I want to normalise staying
in connection through those moments.

477
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,559
For Bertie, communication
has always been a challenge.

478
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:47,839
Since I was born,
I was diagnosed with autism,

479
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:54,039
and that has played a big role
in how I've interacted with people.

480
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:58,919
Sometimes I do give off mannerisms
that are socially different.

481
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,319
Good afternoon. Good afternoon.

482
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:06,199
But when you see other people
in a relationship having sex,

483
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,680
you feel like you're missing
out on something amazing.

484
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:14,639
I've not been romantically touched
by anyone.

485
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,920
That's the part
that I have struggled with a lot.

486
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,439
So we're going to start standing.
OK. And the goal

487
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:28,719
is to get us lying down,
clothes off,

488
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,920
staying connected. OK. Yeah?
All right. All right.

489
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,320
How are you feeling? Good.
Thank you for asking.

490
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,799
The key... The goal was to go
down here,

491
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,239
wasn't it? Undress and go
down. To undress each other.

492
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,399
Bertie's awkwardness...
OK. You've got this.

493
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,159
All right. ..is hard to shift.

494
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,439
First of all, I'm just wondering,
how do I take a top like this off?

495
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,319
It's just over the head. Oh, OK.
And I don't even have a bra on,

496
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,679
so it makes it much easier.

497
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,759
That's funny,
because I've got a bra on.

498
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,240
Right. Oh, OK.

499
00:28:12,360 --> 00:28:13,520
It's very tight.

500
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,839
SHE LAUGHS
Yeah. I think undressing each

501
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,479
other isn't going
to work from now on. It is.

502
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,079
It's OK to struggle, though.
That's the point, you know? Yeah.

503
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,519
You are so funny and so charming.

504
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,439
And if you just relax in moments
like these, you're perfect.

505
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,359
Yes? Off? Yeah.

506
00:28:31,360 --> 00:28:34,159
Yay! Naked!

507
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,440
BERTIE LAUGHS

508
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,239
KAT EXHALES

509
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,960
Take a moment and just land here.

510
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,000
You're doing great.

511
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,119
Where would you like to be touched?

512
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,440
Yeah, that feels good.

513
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,439
Mm. As things escalate...
You're very juicy.

514
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,559
That's what you want, yeah.

515
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,999
...Bertie's communication improves.

516
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,479
Can I give you a spank? Yes.

517
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,879
SLAPPING
Thanks for asking.

518
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,479
And the session
leads to mutual pleasure.

519
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,160
MOANING

520
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,800
Did you just orgasm? Yeah.

521
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,880
I'm very aroused at the moment.
It's good to be aroused.

522
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,080
KISSING

523
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,599
Did you just squirt in my hair?

524
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:37,960
THEY LAUGH

525
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,759
Can you get it for me?

526
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,839
Is this the right time now
to say I'm sorry?

527
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,480
No, you don't have to apologise.

528
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,920
How much did I get off?!
You got a lot.

529
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,439
OK. It's gone.

530
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:54,480
THEY LAUGH

531
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,439
KAT SIGHS

532
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,120
That was incredible.
Thank you so much.

533
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,439
All right. Have a good day.
I'm feeling excellent.

534
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,359
I've managed to do so many things

535
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,159
I thought I could never do
in my life.

536
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:15,880
And I'm just so, so, so
grateful for Kat.

537
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,439
How was your one-on-one?

538
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:30,479
So we both took it in turns
to touch each other down there.

539
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,919
I'm happy for you.
It's quite surreal at the moment

540
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,599
because I never thought I'd get
to this stage.

541
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,159
I also didn't think
I'd get this far,

542
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,759
in a sense, because you come
in with a set of, like,

543
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,519
"There's no way I could possibly."

544
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,639
And then you just end
up feeling safer and safer.

545
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:46,599
Look at us! I know. Absolutely.
Who'd have thought it?

546
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,799
Who'd have thought it? Exactly.

547
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,279
Oh. I'm so proud of you.

548
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:52,520
Thank you.

549
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,800
Are you going to dance? There we go!

550
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,600
JOY LAUGHS

551
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,719
Um, yeah, they're going to be like,

552
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,399
"Guys, you're too affectionate,
actually."

553
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,319
"Alex is getting a boner during the
thing, so you've got to stop
filming."

554
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,039
It's going to be like,

555
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,639
"Alex, here's how to avoid getting
a boner."
THEY LAUGH

556
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,319
Love is in the air,

557
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,399
and Alex and Joy's relationship
has delighted the experts.

558
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:24,399
I'm just so proud
to watch Joy really own who she is.

559
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,679
And she's gotten this

560
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:29,799
very sweet little romance blooming
with Alex.

561
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,280
It's amazing. I love it.

562
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,319
Alex and Joy have asked

563
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,920
to spend time together away from
the group.

564
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,239
Well, I know the two of you have
asked for a little bit more privacy.

565
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,159
Does that feel like something
that you still want?

566
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,479
I'd be keen.
There's no pressure just

567
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:49,999
because you go into
that space together

568
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,719
that there's anything
that you need to do. Yeah.

569
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,519
No, Alex makes me feel really safe
to do that.

570
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,759
So you're great. Thank you. Yeah.
Any questions about that?

571
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,160
Yeah. So when?

572
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,479
Having arrived on the island
with their own sexual issues,

573
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,639
Alex and Joy have made huge strides.

574
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,879
I feel so proud of myself
for the progress I've made.

575
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,519
THEY LAUGH

576
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,079
I think Joy is really funny,
really nice.

577
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,039
She's obviously gorgeous.
I think she's amazing.

578
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,559
So for the first time on the island,

579
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,880
two virgins head off
for private time of their own.

580
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,599
After you. Thank you.

581
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,080
OK, so there's a bed.

582
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,239
Joy, she's still dealing
with vaginismus,

583
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,839
but they can explore

584
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,639
and see what's possible
between them.

585
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,480
KISSING

586
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,200
JOY LAUGHS

587
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,800
MOANING

588
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,000
MOANING

589
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,440
JOY LAUGHS

590
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,439
Sex is more than just
penetration and,

591
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:39,599
like, feels almost

592
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,399
that I've lost my virginity just
because of how everything's changed.

593
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:44,840
It's been really transformative.

594
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,479
In three weeks,
this retreat has undone, like,

595
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,999
ten years' worth
of Christian camp trauma.

596
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,079
To be, like, alone with a guy

597
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,879
in an intimate
setting, to experience pleasure...

598
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,399
Thank you. ..was, like,
such a huge thing for me.

599
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,439
Very, very surprised
that you hadn't done it before.

600
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:04,839
I appreciate that.

601
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,679
It's like master magician hands.

602
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:07,759
HE LAUGHS

603
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,239
I had vaginismus, and now I can
experience penetration,

604
00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:12,239
even if it's just a finger for now.

605
00:34:12,240 --> 00:34:16,039
And I just feel like, oh, such a
weight off my shoulders.

606
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,959
I think just, like, thank you
to Celeste and Danielle

607
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,199
and to Ilil
for literally changing my life.

608
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,400
Yeah.

609
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,959
Go on. Give us your best seduction
face.

610
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,799
It's late afternoon on day two of
the seduction phase.

611
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,319
Actually,
that does turn me on a bit.

612
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,599
And many of the virgins
are feeling inspired.

613
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,479
Let me take you to bed.

614
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,759
I'm really happy for you,
but I am straight.

615
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,239
Oh. My fanny's just deflated.

616
00:34:47,240 --> 00:34:49,080
THEY LAUGH

617
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,959
But for Jason,
there's still work to do.

618
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,159
I don't want to be alone
for the rest of my life.

619
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,399
I'm not very touchy.
I'm probably quite prudish.

620
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,599
But I've obviously missed

621
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,639
out on something,
so I want to amend it.

622
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,360
I wouldn't be here otherwise.

623
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,279
To help... Hey, Jason!

624
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,840
...Aisha is continuing their
work on breaking down barriers.

625
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,759
What did you find most helpful
so far?

626
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,239
Basically, anything was helpful

627
00:35:21,240 --> 00:35:23,959
because it was,
like, pushing boundaries.

628
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,839
To push his boundaries further...

629
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,199
Is that something you'd
like to explore?

630
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,799
Yeah, yeah.
The talk about sexual desire.

631
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,239
...Aisha has an exercise

632
00:35:31,240 --> 00:35:34,519
that allows Jason
to request intimate touch.

633
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,879
When we can vocalise our desire,
then we can begin

634
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,759
to create them.

635
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,079
It's really quite a
pivotal exercise.

636
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,679
You might ask for touch
and caresses.

637
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,479
Cuddles.

638
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,759
OK. And I will either say yes, no,
or maybe.

639
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:56,199
OK? OK.
Jason has never experienced

640
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,120
intimate touch,
making this his biggest step yet.

641
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,719
Will you move a hand

642
00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:10,799
up towards the top of
my inner thigh...

643
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,400
...slowly? OK, I got it.

644
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:26,679
Will you press from my crown
down toward my shoulders?

645
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,920
OK. Yes.

646
00:36:40,240 --> 00:36:44,199
As the session progresses,
Jason gets bolder.

647
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:48,279
Will you clutch my crotch

648
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,560
and then hold for five seconds?

649
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:54,720
Yes.

650
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:12,559
Will you lie face down on top of me?

651
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,680
OK.

652
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,760
Noticing how that feels?

653
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,359
Yeah.
I can feel, like, your heartbeat.

654
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,480
Mm.

655
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,200
RHYTHMIC HEARTBEAT

656
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:31,800
OK.

657
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:39,399
You broke your boundaries. Yeah.
That's so cool.

658
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,919
Jason really surprised me.

659
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,279
He's achieved a lot from
where he was

660
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,319
when he arrived to where we got to
in session today.

661
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,399
Bye. I think it was a good session.
Makes me feel like I've...

662
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,559
...I've actually progressed.

663
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,479
Jason! Hello.

664
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,839
There's a lot I've learned.
My experience has been...

665
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,120
I think it's been good.

666
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:07,079
OK. So how was it?
Good. Yes. Perfect.

667
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,360
JASON LAUGHS

668
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,599
Have you got a one-to-one today,
Marianne? Mm-hm.

669
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,519
Andre calms my nerves. Good, good.

670
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,879
But I haven't been full naked with
a guy ever,

671
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,120
so a bit nervous.

672
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,559
Marianne - you're going to be having
a session with her, Andre.

673
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,079
Yeah, I'm just going to check
in to see how she's feeling,

674
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,199
about how we've escalated
up to this point

675
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,760
and see if we want
to escalate a little bit more.

676
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,399
Everyone puts a virgin

677
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,879
as either a trophy
or just something that's laughable,

678
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,719
{\an8}and it feels as if the stakes

679
00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:47,240
{\an8}get higher and higher.

680
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,999
Trust is everything.
I could never do anything

681
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,839
with anyone I didn't trust
and I never would.

682
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:54,840
Knock, knock.

683
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,880
But I want to be a bit
more adventurous.

684
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,759
I want to check
in to see how you're feeling.

685
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,759
I'm feeling confident in general.

686
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,679
I feel like I'm ready
to go fully nude.

687
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:07,759
That's great. Yeah.

688
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,039
I also want to see how
you feel about

689
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,079
some of the sensuality
to undressing each other.

690
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,240
I'm happy to try it. OK. Yeah.

691
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,759
Through sensual undressing,

692
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,880
Andre is teaching Marianne the art
of seduction.

693
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,159
How does this feel?
It feels very nice.

694
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,999
I've got tingles. Mm.

695
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,159
And she's learning fast.

696
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,959
Can I take this off? Mm.

697
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,000
Mm.

698
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,240
Thank you.

699
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,000
MARIANNE MOANS

700
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:57,800
SHE SIGHS

701
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:00,960
SHE MOANS

702
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,320
MARIANNE MOANS

703
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:20,640
How does that feel?

704
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,840
Yes.

705
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,640
I've got tingles in my pussy. Mm.

706
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,320
But the lesson doesn't end there.

707
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:41,959
You can.

708
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,480
You can touch as well.

709
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:46,880
Take your time.
I don't know how to touch it.

710
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,160
And you can hold it,
and you can examine.

711
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,199
It's not how I thought
it would feel. It feels good.

712
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,439
So that's the head.

713
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,399
And that's, for me,
the most, like, sensitive part.

714
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:02,640
I'm, like, super curious.

715
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:09,679
I'm soft now, but when I'm aroused,
if we get to that point,

716
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,759
you will see a difference in the
size

717
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,999
and also stiffness.

718
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,159
I could do this all day.

719
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,160
THEY LAUGH

720
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,719
It felt safe, lovely,
and very horny at the same time.

721
00:41:23,720 --> 00:41:26,479
I 100% think it's a real prospect
that I could

722
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,599
lose my virginity with Andre,
which, when I came here I was like,

723
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,959
"There's no way, it will never
happen."

724
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,839
But with all the workshops

725
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:39,920
and the support of everyone,
my confidence is really like, great.

726
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:49,960
It's early evening.

727
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:52,920
This is exciting.

728
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,119
And before the seduction phase comes
to an end...

729
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,199
Hello.

730
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,240
...the group must present
their sexy super selves.

731
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,039
Seduction is not about
being perfect.

732
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,239
It's about being comfortable

733
00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:09,719
in your body
and not afraid of being seen.

734
00:42:09,720 --> 00:42:13,959
We can't wait
to see you take on your catwalk.

735
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:18,159
We want you to wear it, strut it
and show yourself off.

736
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,919
When you step into the super self,

737
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,439
you exaggerate all of
your best qualities

738
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,039
and you fully embrace all of
the amazing things about yourself.

739
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,319
It's one thing to just put on
make-up and a costume.

740
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,559
It's a whole other thing to get on

741
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,520
that catwalk
and show who you really are now.

742
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,280
CHEERING

743
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:40,240
Oh, yeah.

744
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,440
I'm Moxie. Just a bad, bad bunny.

745
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,359
And how does it make you feel?

746
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:53,079
I feel, like, cute and sexy
and I'm very... cheeky.

747
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,319
I'm just a whole lot of fun.
Yes, you are.

748
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:56,800
THEY CHEER

749
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,599
Some of the group
are embracing their fun side.

750
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,000
Woohoo!

751
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:10,719
I am a wolf.

752
00:43:10,720 --> 00:43:11,720
THEY HOWL

753
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,200
CHEERING

754
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,360
I'm PT Katie.

755
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,920
Work out in the day.
Work out in the night.

756
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,599
Others are finding their voices.

757
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:31,880
CHEERING

758
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:37,839
For years I thought that being
a lesbian was a bad thing.

759
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,239
So I feel really pleased
that I can just be myself.

760
00:43:42,240 --> 00:43:44,839
And I'm so glad
that I'm not straight.

761
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,080
CHEERING

762
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,360
Woo!

763
00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:53,279
Hey!

764
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:54,520
CHEERING

765
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,479
How does it make you feel
when you wear it?

766
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,640
Um... I just feel confident.

767
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,680
And a new sense of self begins
to shine.

768
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,279
CHEERING

769
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:11,280
Woo!

770
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,360
Woo!

771
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,080
I'm Sheriff Shalom and
I put naughty people away.

772
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:24,159
My name's Fanny Flutter.
THEY LAUGH

773
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:25,559
And you know what?

774
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,119
Nothing's better than having lots
of sex.

775
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,160
Woo!

776
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,160
CHEERING

777
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,279
I'm Slutty Stephanie.

778
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,959
Hot stripper vibes.

779
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,519
While some super selves
are fully formed...

780
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:44,839
I feel confident.

781
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:49,159
Slutty Stephanie does not give
a fuck what anyone thinks about her.

782
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,040
...others are still finding their
way.

783
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,879
Where's the, uh... There it is.

784
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,880
CHEERING

785
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,359
But all of them have come on
in leaps and bounds.

786
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,879
Does your super self have a name?

787
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,599
No, it does not. King Bee.

788
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,759
King Bee. King Bee.
King Bee. King Bee. King Bee.

789
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,800
The people have spoken. King Bee.

790
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:17,159
Wow. Those are some of the most
amazing super selves I've ever seen.

791
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,559
Give yourself...
CHEERING

792
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,439
This is definitely my super self.

793
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,439
When I doubt myself for the future,
I'll come back to Moxie.

794
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:26,640
Yay!

795
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,399
I'm feeling very confident.

796
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,159
Probably wouldn't go around
in a Viking hat and a cloak though.

797
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,239
I'm just so thankful

798
00:45:36,240 --> 00:45:40,319
that I've had the experience
and able to lose my virginity.

799
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:44,439
Yeah, it's, um... emotional.

800
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,279
People called me King Bee,

801
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,280
but I've decided that I'm actually
the Fresh Prince of Somerset.

802
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,119
I am going to miss all this.

803
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,879
Last phase tomorrow. Let's see what
it brings.

804
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:57,919
Next time...

805
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,079
You can flip her into doggy style.
Yeah!

806
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,879
...the group enter the climax of
the retreat.

807
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,119
Oh, my God. Oh! Wow.

808
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,719
And with time running out...

809
00:46:07,720 --> 00:46:09,319
I think... I need more boy knowledge.

810
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,479
...which of the remaining virgins...

811
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,439
Will you take off my shirt?

812
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:14,559
I thought you'd never ask.

813
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,040
...will complete the course?

814
00:46:20,240 --> 00:46:23,479
If you've identified with the issues
raised in Virgin Island

815
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,959
and would like to be part of
a possible new series,